Security is the basis of everyones life that decides what path your life will take and serves as a guideline for our actions. In my life i have seen that i lacked this word in many aspects. Now me...i always end up with half of each type of security. i either have one or two good friends, some family, and a mediocre boyfriend. In 3 categories actually...Family security, friendship security, and romantic security.
Family security
This type of security is the security that you get when you have both parents present and you witness their happiness which in turn transcends onto you, providing you too with happiness. This kind of security can also come in the form of brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins..etc. It is a NECESSITY for a child. They need some sort of Family related security in order to build on for their future. family is essentially the most important part of your life.
This type of security is the security that you get when you have both parents present and you witness their happiness which in turn transcends onto you, providing you too with happiness. This kind of security can also come in the form of brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins..etc. It is a NECESSITY for a child. They need some sort of Family related security in order to build on for their future. family is essentially the most important part of your life.
Friendship security..... i wont really elaborate on this kind of security because personally i think that the term 'FRIENDSHIP' is used too loosely. Not everyone who we think are friends are really friends, therefore it is hard to say that without friends you are nothing. (even tho they do contribute to your social standing, which are sometimes important)
Romantic Security
This type of security, in my opinion is important because matters of the heart determines (most of the time) someone's happiness. A romantic partner provides friendship, and family security so if you have Romantic security that is firm and solid then you may not need anything else.
Same goes for the other two. It is possible to have one type of security and not the other 2. but if you have no real friends, a bad relationship with your family, and no romantic live then you are basically setting yourself up for failure.
