Ok so i have started reading This Amazing book by steve harvey <==== Act like a lady think like a man. It is basically a relationship guide for women to learn how men think. I just started reading it and i am HOOKED. strung the hell out over this book. He's just not that into you has nothing on this book
heres an excerpt:
"...you have to understand a man's motivation--why he's not home, why he spends so much time working, why he's watching his money the way he does. because in this world he is being judged by other men based on who he is, what he does, and how much he makes. that affects his mood. if you know he's not where he wants to be or not on track to where he wants to be, then his mood swings will make more sense to you. your inability to get him to sit and talk now makes sense. His 'on the grind" mentality becomes more clear to you. Really, its all tied to the three things that drive him. (who he is, what he does, and how much he makes.) so if its on his mind, and he hasnt lined up the who he is, what he does, and how much he makes in the way that he sees fit, he cant possibly be to you what he wants to be. which means that you can't really have the man you want. he cant sit around talking with you or dream about marriage and family, if his mind is on how to make money, how to get a better position, and how to be the kind of man he needs to be for you"
I can relate Nuff said ...lol
well i'm off to finish reading my book
but this is on my booklist guys, you should def. check it out...both boys and girls
much love bloggers im out =)